Remembering All The Boys

Elvia Bautista, a female narrator in the story, seems forgiving toward the enemy who killed her brother.  She knows that's what gangs do, it is nothing new to her.  She always nod to tragic news relating to gangs instead of wailing.  She might find arguments between her bother and the enemy silly.  Those gang groups take it seriously as a business.  Why do they fight over which blue and red they like?  

They hate each other, but they are same lion?  Aren't they?

Killing each other as enemies is unreasonable.  Their reason might be perplexed as if they've not sit down and work it out what they'd done to each other.  It would be a simple method to settle it down.  They can't do that since they are oil and water.  They are stubborn to flow together.

Let's say that the female narrator with a different situation forgives a drunk driver who kills her drunk brother.  Will this change this situation?  I doubt it.  Her drunk brother would do the same thing.

People will try to be in other people's shoes when they wonder why they do that.  They have to respect and back off their lines.  Sadly, some people rub the line in their enemies' faces, provoking them and ending up fighting.  Cruel animosity blinds them to jump to conclusion without acknowledging each other.

We probably respect them and let someone to wake up them to what they've done.